Dating etiquette 101
For many, dating can be stressful especially if you’ve been out of the “game” for a while. But the good news is that it doesn’t have to be. Despite the fact that the dating world and they way we communicate has changed a lot, one thing remains the same: dating etiquette. Following a few rules of thumb will ensure you make a great impression and you and your date both have a great time. Here are some guidelines to consider.
Before the date
Dress well – It’s not about looking like a magazine model or wearing designer clothes but putting in an effort to look presentable and nice. There’s no excuses for looking shabby and it shows a lack of respect for your date.
Be prepared – Although it’s still customary for men to pay for the date, this is not always the case. Both men and women should make sure they have enough money to pay the bill. Bringing cash is a good idea to make splitting the bill easier if that turns out to be necessary.
Arrive on time – Never keep your date waiting, it is simply rude! If you’re meeting at the restaurant or venue, plan ahead and leave early. It’s better to be early than late. However, if you are running late let your date know and be very apologetic.
During the date
Show interest – Let your date know you want to genuinely get to know them by listening and asking questions. Positive body language like eye contact is crucial. Don’t cross your arms or constantly look away.
Compliment your date – Always be courteous and complimentary to your date – but make sure you are being genuine with your praise. Dates are the time for pleasantries not negative opinions or comments.
Don’t talk about past relationships – Whether it’s positive or negative, don’t talk about past relationships when you start seeing someone new. Even if it’s not necessarily true, it could indicate you are not over the relationship.
Turn off your phone – Stop any potential distractions by turning off your phone or switching it to silent. Your date should be the focus of your attention. Texting or taking a call (unless it is important) is bad manners and disrespectful to your date.
Don’t use bad language – Swearing or any type of foul language on a date can sound rude and crass.
Offer to pay – It’s a general rule that whoever initiated the date should take care of paying. However it is courteous for the other to at least offer to pay.
After the date
Be honest – If you feel like there is no chemistry and you cannot see the relationship progressing, be honest and tell them. Don’t falsely promise anything.
Follow up – A simple text message or a call the next day saying you enjoyed the date is a polite and positive gesture. If you are interested in a second date this will set the wheels in motion for more dates.
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