"Felt like a criminal": Mother and disabled son "kicked out" of Pink concert
<p>A distraught mother has taken to social media to recall the moment her and her seven-year-old son, who has Down syndrome, were asked to leave a concert venue. </p>
<p>Vanessa Vasey, 48, spent over $1,000 to take her son Jesse to see Pink in London during her UK stadium tour, but when the pair arrived at the venue, things took a turn. </p>
<p>Jesse struggled to stay still in his seat and was soon surrounded by "six security guards" who ordered the disabled boy to sit down, otherwise they would have to leave.</p>
<p>She said she tried to explain her sonâs condition to the guards but they ended up being âescorted from the premisesâ just as Pink took to the stage.</p>
<p>On Facebook, Vasey wrote in detail about what happened, saying her son had been ârobbedâ of a special experience.</p>
<p>âMusic is his life and Pink is one of his absolute favourites,â she wrote.</p>
<p>âWe successfully saw her perform at BST Hyde Park last year and were thrilled to learn of her return again this year.â</p>
<p>Vasey said she purchased more expensive âhospitality ticketsâ allowing people to move between bars and food outlets during the night âso that Jesse wouldnât be pressured into remaining in one seat all night, as he gets overwhelmed in busy environments and finds it hard to sit still.â</p>
<p>âWe spent some time in the bar leading up to the main act, and Jesse was having a wonderful time, until about 45 minutes before Pink was due to come on, they suddenly shut all the blinds, obstructing us from seeing anything,â she wrote.</p>
<p>âI tried to consult with the hospitality managers over this, and explained Jesseâs needs, but they wouldnât budge on it. So not wanting Jesse to stare at a blind all night, we attempted to go into the seating zone."</p>
<p>âWe couldnât get him to sit in his seat, but he was happy dancing and singing at the front railings, and even interacting with some of the other guests."</p>
<p>âDoing no harm to anyone, or obstructing anyoneâs view. This seemed OK for about half an hour or so. Then ... just as Pink dropped from the sky in her opening number, we had six security guards come into the zone and ask us to leave or sit in our seats.â</p>
<p>Vasey said the security guards were âabrupt, intimidating and unpleasantâ, as they "tried to force us to take Jesse to a sensory room which was soundproof, and watch Pink on a screen.â </p>
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<p>âSomething we could do at home, robbing us of the whole experience, as if my son was some sort of inconvenience, and better off shut in a room out of sight.â</p>
<p>When Vasey complained to venue staff, she claims that more security guards appeared and they had no choice but to leave. </p>
<p>âWe were escorted out of the building like criminals and saw no more of the Pink show. Jesse was utterly devastated, and they showed absolutely zero care or understanding."</p>
<p>âShame on you Tottenham Stadium,â she concluded. âMy poor boy deserved so much better than this!â</p>
<p>After UK media picked up Vasey's story, Tottenham Stadium released a statement explaining their actions. </p>
<p>âFollowing further investigation, we can confirm that Ms Vasey was offered assistance by our Safeguarding and Welfare teams throughout the night to provide Jesse with a comfortable viewing experience, including access to our dedicated Sensory Room,â the statement read.</p>
<p>âThe offers of assistance were declined by Ms Vasey and the party chose to leave the event.â</p>
<p>Vasey was soon set upon by online trolls who condemned her choice to take Jesse to the concert in the first place, to which she issues a lengthy statement about inclusivity and not singling people out for their disabilities. </p>
<p>âWhy do we take them [to events]? Because, as parents, we have the same dreams and aspirations for our children as any other parent,â she wrote.</p>
<p>âWe have the same desires to see our childrenâs faces light up, as any other parent would. Our children are exposed to the same world as other children, and they enjoy the same things."</p>
<p>âThey have the same likes and desires. The only thing thatâs different is their needs, their abilities and their way of accessing their dreams."</p>
<p>âWhy should these things deny them of fulfilling these dreams and passions? This is meant to be a world of inclusion. So letâs start including!"</p>
<p>âThat means adapting, understanding, supporting and most importantly; changing the way we deliver these privileges so that they are privileges for all of us, and not just some of us.â</p>
<p><em>Image credits: Facebook/Richard Isaac/Shutterstock Editorial </em></p>
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