"It's been really hard": Nicole Kidman's Mother's Day heartbreak
<p>Nicole Kidman has opened up about her heartache on <a href="https://www.innovations.com.au/p/gifts/mothers-day-gifts?utm_source=over60&utm_medium=nativearticle&utm_campaign=MothersDayGifts" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Mother’s Day</a> this year as she continues to remain in lockdown during the coronavirus pandemic.</p>
<p>The 52-year-old is currently living with husband Keith Urban and their two daughters, 11-year-old Sunday Rose and nine-year-old Faith Margaret in her Nashville home.</p>
<p>And despite spending the special day with her daughters, there was one person noticeably absent from the day.</p>
<p>Speaking to the Sydney Morning Herald via telephone, Nicole became emotional due to not seeing her mum on Mother’s Day this year.</p>
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<p>“We’re in a position where we just have to relinquish control right now and go day by day,” she said.</p>
<p>But as much as she tries to remain optimistic, that hasn’t detracted from the hard reality of being away from her extended family.</p>
<p>“I have my immediate family here, but I don’t have my extended family, who are so much a part of me. I can’t touch them,” she said.</p>
<p>“So many people are in exactly the same position. So many people right now are going, ‘When do I see my family again?’”</p>
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<p>The actress described her mum as “my mentor, my guide and my nurturer”, while adding that she was extremely grateful for Keith’s mother Marienne.</p>
<p>“She gave me Keith, she gave me the greatest gift,” she said.</p>
<p>“And I am down-on-my-knees grateful to her.”</p>
<p>For the day itself, Kidman described her ideal celebration with her mum.</p>
<p>"I would love to be able to have a cup of tea with mum and sit on the balcony and talk about life and have her tell me what I should be doing," the actress said.</p>
<p>She also said that it had been “really hard” as her mother made the difficult decision to move back to Australia so she can spend time with her 80-year-old mum.</p>
<p>"Talk about just gut-wrenching. At least there's FaceTime and technology because that's been a saving grace... It's been really hard," she said.</p>