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A guide to creating an oral family history

<p>Creating a family history is a special way to preserve cherished memories and experiences. While the traditional method of scrapbooks, journals and albums are fun, have you ever considered creating an oral family history? A digital history can bring your family stories to life – you can actually hear people’s voices, see their faces and experience them live in action! These days with smartphones and tablets it’s never been easier to gather audio and visual recordings of your family stories. It’s also a lovely way to spend time with your family and connect with relatives you might not have seen for a while. Here’s our guide to getting started.</p><p><strong>What you will need</strong></p><p>An oral history is simply telling your family history in a number of ways. You might want to use both audio and video recordings together. You might just want to concentrate on audio recordings combined with scanned old photos. Be creative, it can be anything you want it to be. Nowadays a smartphones or tablet has everything you need – you can use it to record audio, videos and take photos.&nbsp; If relatives are interstate or overseas, recording straight off Skype is another option. Video and audio editing software like iMovie or Movie Maker are inexpensive and easy to use if you are feeling inventive.</p><p>There are also a few free apps which simplifies this process. For iPhones there is <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/familysearch-memories/id885970971?mt=8" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Family Search</strong></span></a> which lets you snap photos, record audio and write notes. It then organises it all for you making it easy to collect, preserve and share your memories. For Androids a free app called <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.savingmemoriesforever.SavingMemoriesForever&amp;hl=en" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Saving Memories Forever</strong></span></a> similarly organises all your audio recordings which you can share around the world.</p><p><strong>Have a plan</strong></p><p>Beginning a family history can be overwhelming – after all, you have plenty of experience behind you and a few stories to tell! So it is helpful to have a plan. Think about the key stories, memories, trips, experiences or traditions that you want to explore and capture. Start there - other stories will begin to emerge when you begin interviewing but it’s useful to have a base to organise the stories.</p><p><strong>Keep everyone involved</strong></p><p>Everyone has stories to tell so ask all your family members. You will most likely conduct many one-on-one interviews which is great to delve into particular memories and stories. However, remember it is also fun and illuminating to interview people in a big group (for example, all your siblings together). This way you will be able to capture the relationships between the people as they are reminiscing. If they mention a particular item or photograph, you could take a photograph and intersperse it with the recording.</p><p><strong>Ask open questions</strong></p><p>It’s a good idea to have a think (and maybe write them down) about the types of questions you want to ask – and this may be different for each family members. While some questions will be establishing facts and what happened, remember the best part of undertaking this endeavour is starting a conversation and discovering memories along the way. You don’t want the interview to be a chore so just be natural and enjoy the conversation.</p><p><strong>Enjoy the experience</strong></p><p>This is meant to be fun so only take on as much as you want too! Don’t stress that you aren’t getting it “perfect” – your family will love you for taking the time and effort to create one. The act of reminiscing together is not only fun but often builds stronger bonds and connections. And after all your efforts, your family history will be presented in a fun and vibrant way to share with the generations to come.</p>

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How to create AMAZING family photos

<p>With a little planning, taking candid family photos or setting up for a family portrait should be fun for all involved. Here are some ideas on different setups as well as 10 quick tips to help you have a successful and fun photo session.</p><p>Rallying up the troops is the kind of activity that deserves a medal. From your nonchalant teenage granddaughter to your highly energetic three-year-old grandson, it’s no small task getting everyone in one place, happy about getting snapped and looking in the same direction with all eyes open. So first of all, well done for wanting to capture some memories. Now, hopefully you’ve survived telling the family you want to get them together to take some pics, here’s what to do next.</p><p>When you set out to take family photos, your goal should be to create something unique and memorable. Rather than go for the traditional portrait for every shot, why not try something unique. “Unique” doesn’t have to mean something crazy whereby you go for optical illusions; rather it’s about bringing out the uniqueness of your family. Focus on their interests and hobbies. You may even want to take it further by incorporating their everyday traits, hobbies and lifestyle into the photo session. Throw this idea to the family and give them some time to think about it.</p><p>If your family enjoys being active and spending time outdoors, go to a nearby park with some props (like a Frisbee) and snap away while they have a blast. If they enjoy reading, have them pick their favourite books for some fun snaps. These kinds of things won’t take much of your time, but they will create great moments.</p><p><strong>10 TIPS FOR BETTER FAMILY PORTRAIT</strong></p><p>1. Use a tripod when possible</p><p>2. Shoot in manual exposure mode</p><p>3. Lock the focus or use manual focus</p><p>4. Arrange people with heads staggered</p><p>5. Allow kids to be kids and get goofy with them</p><p>6. Help people to get into position, if it bends, bend it</p><p>7. Pose people to encourage them</p><p>8. Lighting is key – get some in their eyes</p><p>9. Expression is everything<br><br>10. Have a little fun with it and let go</p>

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Now and then: My Massachusetts penfriend

<p><strong><em>Margaret Graham, 75, from Minnamurra, New South Wales, shares her beautiful Now and Then story about writing to a Massachusetts paper in 1959, seeking a pen pal and making a life-long friend with whom she would confide in over the years.</em></strong></p><p>In early 1959 I wrote to a Springfield, Massachusetts newspaper requesting a penfriend. I wanted to know more about life in the USA and I chose to write to a Springfield newspaper in Massachusetts, as there’s a Springfield here in New South Wales.</p><p>Around two months later I received a letter from Shirley who lived in Springfield. I accepted her as my penfriend and we had 52 lovely years of correspondence. In one of the first letters I received from Shirley in 1959, she also sent the above photo of herself sitting on the porch (far left).</p><p>Shirley and I would write to each other about my activities in ballroom dancing, my association with St John’s Ambulance and about my weekends spent at Cronulla Surf Club, Gunnamatta Bay and other places. We also discussed my work in the medical field. Since the age of 19 I worked typing medical reports from which I have only recently retired. I have extensive knowledge of the medical field in cardiothoracic, dermatology, ophthalmology and all forms of radiology.</p><p>From Shirley’s side, we’d talk about her work with the local school library and her husband, Fred’s heritage with the well-known Samuel Adams family in America. She would also write to me about her only child, Susan, and her upbringing. In Shirley’s letters she would tell me tales about their holiday home at Lake Wyola North of Springfield, which has been in the family for four generations.</p><p>When I was married in 1960, there was even more to talk about. I was living at Mortdale in Sydney and after the wedding we moved to Mount Pritchard on the outskirts of Liverpool where we purchased a home. I now reside in Minnamurra, which is two hours south of Sydney. I live on the river and ocean outlet.</p><p>After numerous years corresponding with each other, I visited Shirley in 1980. It was my first trip overseas and so nice to finally meet Shirley, her husband and daughter. I was taken back by the friendliness of the people I met on that trip. I also managed to stopover in Buffalo and Niagara Falls and again met some wonderful people. Niagara is a magical place; I fell in love with it. On my flight back to San Francisco, with a stop in Pennsylvania, I alighted from the plane to stretch my legs and met, who I thought were, two stewards. With my foreign accent, they were intrigued to find out where I was from. Once back on the plane, I was surprised to discover the two “stewards” turned out to be the pilot and co-pilot and they welcomed me on-board. As the journey continued the pilots’ voices came over the speaker and they were requesting to descend a little so that I could take some photos over Denver. I captured a few wonderful photos for my memory book. Whilst in San Francisco I did a lot of walking and was just ambling along when I heard a car approaching. It was the police. “Ma'am do you know where you are,” said one of the officers. Naturally I replied, “Yes”. The next thing I heard was, “Do you know you’re in the red light area?” I did not! “Where the heck are you from,” the policemen asked. Well, they promptly escorted me back to safety.</p><p>Over the years of correspondence Shirley and I became very close and much closer after I visited her in Springfield. Then in 1982 Shirley visited me, which she enjoyed immensely. I took her to many places including a visit to my son’s farm at Murringo just south of Young.</p><p>In 2009 I visited Springfield again to celebrate 50 years of correspondence with Shirley. I had another wonderful time with my penfriend and her family. We went to Boston to see where Fred’s well-know relative, Samuel Adams, signed the declaration. Then we travelled to New York on the September 23, which was birthday. The photo above (far right) was taken at the Statue of Liberty. This was just a day trip. We did a tour of New York by bus and came back home with some lovely memories.</p><p>Sadly, Shirley has passed away on Thanksgiving last year and I missed her so, but I am so grateful for all of the wonderful memories.</p><p><strong><em>If you have a Now and Then story you would like to share with Over60, please email <a href="mailto:contribute@oversixty.com.au" target="_blank">contribute@oversixty.com.au</a></em></strong></p>

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Stylish ways to embellish treasured photos

<p>If you’re guilty of keeping your family photos hidden away in photo albums, or worse still in boxes, you’re not alone. Well, if you like a bit of a DIY or craft project here are some great ideas on how to transform your photos and make them a feature in your home.</p><p>1. Create an artwork from your photo by photocopying and enlarging the image and then painting the photocopy. If you’re not one to paint, then if you scan your photo onto your computer there are many photo programs (Photoshop and iPhoto, for example) that allow you to play around with the colours and effects of photos. To finish it off, a frame will add an elegant finesse.</p><p>2. There is no better way to make a house feel like a home than to use your family photos to decorate. From family rooms and kitchens, to hallways and stairways, and even bathrooms, photo walls are a great way to display a number of your precious photos and tell a story at the same time.</p><p><em><strong>Related link: <a href="/lifestyle/at-home/2014/06/diy-photo-wall.aspx" target="_blank">Read this article on how to create a photo wall</a>.&nbsp;</strong></em></p><p>3. A family tree is a special way to display family photos, while telling a story. A framed family tree display is a great way to have these treasured vintage photos on display for all to enjoy. Decorators can even have damaged photos impressively restored by photographic labs inexpensively these days. Images are displayed in historical order. One simple way to connect each generation is to use ribbon. It is a good idea to have all images in uniform black and white, and using vintage frames can give a great sense of historical significance to the display. Family tree displays can be as small or as large as one likes; it all depends on how much wall space a home decorator has to fill.</p><p>4. A picture ledge is a great way to display photo frames of all different sizes, and it allows frames to be swapped regularly in order to rotate many different images. A picture ledge works similarly to a bookshelf, except that it is narrow, usually only a few inches deep, and features a lip that holds frames in place. Frames are placed on the ledge, without the need to be attached to the wall. Picture ledges are able to hold quite a number of framed photos of varying sizes.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

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Discovering I'm related to a politician

<p><em><strong>Di Rieger shares her story about looking into her genealogy and discovering she has ancestors from Sweden and that she was related to a Melbourne senator.</strong></em></p><p>I developed an interest in family history at an early age when family stories were casually chatted about at the dinner table or regaled again and again at family gatherings. These memorable stories of my parents’ and other family members’ lives took on a special importance to me because even if I heard different versions of the same event, to me they were true. To me these stories were family heirlooms held in the heart rather than in the hand. I felt that they were a gift that deserved preserving.</p><p>By learning more about the personalities and heritage of our ancestors, they become more than just names and dates. They become real people with real struggles and dreams and triumphs in their lives just like us.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Researching my mother’s family</strong></p><p>My mother believed that her father Thomas Oscar Miller (nee Liljequist/Liljeqvist) was born to Swedish parents in Boston, Massachusetts, while the family were on holiday visiting relatives. Apparently Thomas had sailed the world twice in a ketch by the time he was 12 years of age.</p><p>My mum would tell us stories about her father and his siblings, including his sister, Helen, who was blind and his brother, William, who drowned at sea while serving as an officer in the American Navy.</p><p>I remember her receiving beautifully hand-written letters from her cousin, David (the son of Thomas’s sister, Ruth), who lived in Michigan. I loved reading the letters and looking at the photographs and dreamed of one day travelling to America. She also received letters from her uncle John who lived in a hotel in the Alps.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>It has been difficult to trace Thomas’s family because he jumped ship and assumed a new name. Most of the information that I have has come from copies of official documents, photographs, personal possessions and shared stories. In the book, Ship Deserters Reported at Adelaide 1912-1913, records show that Thomas Oscar Liljeqvist disembarked from the S.S. Port Hunter (a merchant navy vessel), which had arrived from London and was berthed in Port Adelaide on the April 19, 1912. Thomas Oscar's Application for Certificate of Naturalization (No. 21465) dated at Port Adelaide on December 7, 1914, states that he arrived in Australia on the April 18, 1912. A Statutory Declaration signed the same day states that Thomas's occupation was a labourer and it is believed that he worked on the railway bridge that crossed over the Port Road between Grand Junction Road and the Port Road intersection and Port Adelaide itself. It is not clear when he changed his name to Miller but when he married Maud Ellen Edwards on October 22, 1913, he signed the Marriage Certificate as Thomas Oscar Miller. My sister has in her possession a cookbook that was sent by Thomas’s mother in Sweden to his wife Maud in 1914.&nbsp;</p><p>Thomas Oscar, official number 374A, was a Staff Sergeant in the First A.I.F. He served in the First Machine Gun Battalion and was awarded the 1914/15 Star, British War Medal and the Victory Medal for service in England, France, Gallipoli and the Middle East. When he joined the army he was described as being 26-years and four-months of age, 5' 10 and 1/4" in height, weighing 158lbs with a fresh complexion, light-blue eyes and fair hair. Distinctive marks included a lady's head on his right forearm and a bunch of flowers on his left forearm. At the time of his enlistment Thomas and Ellen Maud were living with their two children Albert John and Thomas Alan at Emily Street, Sandwell, South Australia. When he embarked from Australia on September 19, 1916, his third child, daughter Marjorie Ellen Ruth was only 23 days old.</p><p>My husband’s great grandfather, George Andrew Sangster, was born in June 1845, at the village of Cothal Mills, eight miles from Aberdeen, Scotland. He was one of a family of 12 children and received four years' schooling at a small primary school in Aberdeen. At an early age, he worked at the woollen factory of Messrs. J. J. Crombie and Company where he learned the trade of woollen spinner. At the age of 19 years George abandoned that trade and went to work at the Great North of Scotland Railway Company as an engine cleaner. In 1867 he left the Railway Company and joined Allen’s line of Canadian mail boats running between Liverpool and Quebec and Montreal in the summer months and between Liverpool and Portland, Maine in the winter months. He served in three different boats of Allen's line as fireman and remained with the line till the beginning of 1869. As the service was a weekly one, he acquired some experience of Canadian and American life during this period. When he was nearly 24 years of age George joined the famous steamship, Great Britain, under the well-known Captain Gray. The Great Britain was celebrated in its time for the speed of its passage from England and on March 10, 1870. George sailed on the Great Britain for Melbourne, where he arrived the following May.</p><p>George had numerous positions perhaps the most notable being that he was the first State Labour Member of Parliament for Port Melbourne, Victoria. He opposed participation in the Boer War and federation, supported the White Australia Policy and refused to attend the retiring Governor’s banquet because he believed the money would be better spent providing jobs. As a local councillor he constantly sought better conditions for local workers and better schools for their children. A monument consisting of a ship’s anchor and plaque was erected by the Seamen’s Union of Australia and the City of Port Melbourne in George Sangster Reserve, Port Melbourne in 1988 to recognise a lifetime of service and struggle 1845 to 1915. Our daughter has in her possession a table and set of chairs that belonged to George and is over 100 years old. The chairs were covered with red fabric that represented the&nbsp;Senate chamber in which he sat. Because George was a State Member of Parliament we were able to find information about him in the Parliamentary Library (Parliament of Victoria).</p><p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Di's tips on looking into your own genealogy</strong></span></p><p>So you've decided to dig into your family history, but aren't sure where to begin? These basic steps will get you started on the fascinating journey into genealogy and your past.</p><p>Genealogy, or the compiling of a family tree, is the starting point for broader family history research. It reveals details of related individuals extending backwards in time.</p><p>Start with yourself and work backwards through the generations, recording each person's major life events. Interview your relatives – especially the elder ones – and ask them if they have any family documents, photos, baby books, or heirlooms. Don't forget to enjoy the journey – what you learn about your heritage is more important than how many generations back you can take your family.&nbsp;</p><p>Local libraries have an incredible array of family history resources to help you find out more about the lives of your ancestors. Most of the sources are Australian, however, information from New Zealand, the United Kingdom and Ireland is also available as is a growing collection of other sources. Libraries may also offer services to help you learn how to conduct your genealogical research and ways to make it easier.</p><p>Family trees are meant to be shared and most people look for a way to do it beautifully or creatively. A number of different family tree charts can be purchased or printed for free online. Full-size&nbsp;wall charts make more room for big families and are great conversation starters at family reunions. Alternatively, you can create a family history book, CD, scrapbook or even a cookbook. The point is to have fun and be creative when sharing your family's heritage.&nbsp;</p><p>The best genealogy software program basically boils down to finding the one that's right for you. Almost all family tree software does a good job of letting you enter your family data and view and print it in a wide variety of formats. The differences add up in the features and extras. Try them out before you buy as most genealogy software programs offer free trial versions or a money-back guarantee.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

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