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We know parents shape their children’s reading – but so can aunts, uncles and grandparents, by sharing beloved books

<div class="theconversation-article-body"><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/emily-grace-baulch-1399683">Emily Grace Baulch</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/the-university-of-queensland-805">The University of Queensland</a></em></p> <p><a href="https://creative.gov.au/news/media-releases/revealing-reading-a-survey-of-australian-reading-habits/">Over 80%</a> of Australians with children encourage them to read. Children whose parents enjoy reading are <a href="https://www.booktrust.org.uk/news-and-features/news/news-2023/new-research-from-booktrust-reveals-the-impact-of-parental-reading-enjoyment-on-childrens-reading-habits/">20% more likely</a> to enjoy it too.</p> <p>My research has found parents aren’t the only family members who play an important role in developing a passion for reading – extended family, from grandparents to siblings, uncles and great-aunts, also influence readers’ connections to books.</p> <p>I surveyed 160 Australian readers about their home bookshelves and reading habits. More than 80% of them acknowledged the significant influence of family in what and how they read. Reading to children is often <a href="https://www.booktrust.org.uk/globalassets/resources/research/booktrust-family-survey-research-briefing-2-reading-influencers.pdf">the invisible workload of mothers</a>: 95% of mothers read to children, compared to 67% of fathers.</p> <p>Yet intriguingly, those I surveyed – whose ages ranged from their early 20s to their 70s – collectively talked about books being passed down across eight generations.</p> <p>Family members were associated with their most valued books – and their identities as readers.</p> <h2>Treasured possessions</h2> <p>Books passed down through generations often become treasured possessions, embodying a shared family history. One person discussed an old hardcover copy of <a href="https://www.harpercollins.com.au/9780732284350/blinky-bill/">Blinky Bill</a> by Dorothy Wall. Originally given to her father and his siblings by their great-aunt in 1961, the book’s pages are now discoloured and falling out.</p> <p>“Although I always think of my mother as having been my reading role model,” she wrote, “actually my father had an equally big impact, just in another way.” Her father is a central organising figure on her home bookshelf: she has dedicated a whole shelf to the books he liked.</p> <p>The story she tells about his old copy of Blinky Bill, however, crosses generations. The book’s battered state is a testament to its longevity and well-loved status. Its inscription to her family members makes the copy unique and irreplaceable.</p> <p>Another person remembered a set of Dickens’ novels, complete with margin notes and century-old newspaper clippings, carefully stored with her most special books. These volumes, initially owned by her great-great-grandmother and later gifted by her great-aunt, represent a reading bond passed down through generations.</p> <p>Such books can never be replaced, no matter how many copies might be in circulation. These books are closely associated with memories and experiences – they are invaluable for who they represent.</p> <p>A third person has her father’s “old” Anne McCaffrey’s <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/40323-dragonriders-of-pern">Dragonriders of Pern</a> series: he read it to her as a teenager, then passed it down. The book “sparked” her interest in science-fiction, and she now intends to pass it on to her own teenager. Her book, too, is “battered”, with “chunks falling out when you read it”. The cover is falling off.</p> <p>The deteriorating state of a book is part of the book’s legacy. It shows how loved it has been. Reading passions can be deliberately cultivated through family, but their value is less connected to reading comprehension or literacy than a sense of connection through sharing.</p> <p>Inherited, much-loved books bind families together. They can anchor absent family members to the present. These books can come to symbolise love, connection and loss.</p> <p>The family members who’ve passed down their books might not be physically present in children’s lives – they may not be reading aloud to them at bedtime – but through their books, they can have a strong presence in their loved ones’ memories. That indelible trace can be sustained into adulthood.</p> <h2>Buying books for the next generation</h2> <p>Another way relatives contribute to a family reading legacy is by buying new copies of much-loved books for the next generation. Theresa Sheen, from The Quick Brown Fox, a specialist children’s bookstore in Brisbane, notes that customers often ask for copies of books they had when they were younger.</p> <p>They may have read them to their children and now want them for their grandchildren. For example, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/40767-the-baby-sitters-club">The Babysitters Club series</a> by Ann M. Martin was mentioned multiple times as a nostalgic favourite, now being sought after by grandparents.</p> <p>Readers’ habits of re-buying favourite books can affect the publishing industry. With older children’s classics still selling, publishers seek to update the text to reflect contemporary cultural mores. Enid Blyton is one author who endures through intergenerational love and nostalgia. However, her work is regularly <a href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/books-magazines/books/enid-blytons-famous-five-books-edited-to-remove-offensive-words/news-story/47a63bb79a5d870f19aed58b19469bb5">edited and bowdlerised</a> to update it.</p> <p>Books can be imbued with the voices and emotions of others. They are more than just physical objects – they are vessels of shared experiences that can be passed down, up and across generations. This enduring bond between family members does more than preserve individual stories. It actively shapes and sustains a vibrant reading culture.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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Heartache for Harry and William after the death of their uncle

<p>Prince William and Prince Harry have been rocked by a devastating loss as their uncle has died. </p> <p>Lord Robert Fellowes, the husband of William and Harry’s aunt Jane, passed away at the age of 82 from undisclosed causes.</p> <p>Jane, an elder sister of the late Princess Diana, had been married to Robert for more than 40 years.</p> <p>Prince William had an especially close relationship with Fellowes, as Lord Robert and Jane’s eldest daughter, Laura, is godmother to Princess Charlotte.</p> <p>Lord Fellowes worked as private secretary to the late Queen Elizabeth during some of the most dramatic times during the 1990s, including when his sister-in-law Diana died in 1997 at the age of 36.</p> <p>It has previously been reported that throughout Lord Robert's time as a palace courtier, he sometimes had a strained relationship with his sister-in-law.</p> <p>However, when Diana died, he explained, “I was deeply fond of her. She was a very good person. She found it difficult in life to find happiness, and I’m sad for people who have that situation.”</p> <p>Lord Fellowes was long a trusted member of a small group of advisors who guided the royal family during difficult times. </p> <p>According to The New York Times, he helped to write the speech Elizabeth II gave to the nation from Buckingham Palace on the eve of Diana’s funeral.</p> <p>Lord Robert Fellowes is survived by his wife Jane and their three children Laura, Alexander and Eleanor. </p> <p><em>Image credits: SplashNews.com/Shutterstock Editorial </em></p>

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Aussie billionaire's ambitious mission to recover family remains

<p>Australia's richest man is undertaking an ambitious mission to bring the remains of a long-lost loved one home, to keep a promise he made to his father before he died. </p> <p>Andrew 'Twiggy' Forrest's uncle was one of many Australians who died during the conflict in Papua New Guinea in the 1940s. </p> <p>David Forrest was shot down piloting his RAAF Beaufort bomber into an attack on a Japanese-held airstrip at Gasmata in Papua New Guinea in 1943.</p> <p>The loss has haunted the family ever since, as David's remains were never found. </p> <p>"[We] got the letter, from the king in those days, saying that uncle David was missing and presumed killed in action," Twiggy told <a href="https://9now.nine.com.au/a-current-affair/aussie-billionaire-andrew-twiggy-forrests-search-to-find-loved-ones-lost-in-world-war-ii/9c042a41-c3d1-4b73-af6e-af40c983b81b" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>A Current Affair</em></a>. </p> <p>"Dad went through extreme emotions and grief and since that day he never cried for the rest of his life.</p> <p>"For the next 80 years he couldn't shed a tear it was just overwhelming for him."</p> <p>Twiggy's dad Donald had long said he wanted to hold his brother's dog tags before he died, but after passing away last year at the age 95, he was unable to fulfil his final wish. </p> <p>"Unfortunately we lost dad six months ago so I haven't fulfilled that, but it's really to put closure around something that really wrenched our family," he said.</p> <p>In order to bring closure to the family, Twiggy and his sister Janine have travelled to PNG onboard a purpose-built research vessel and joined by a crew of experts, including marine archeologists.</p> <p>The mission has been ongoing for many years with the blessing of the PNG government and the assistance of RAAF members, but has remained under wraps until now. </p> <p>In 2021, the family thought they had a breakthrough with their mission. </p> <p>"It was really emotional, very heart-wrenching as you went down into the depths thinking, 'Am I going to dive on uncle David's plane and be part of solving the mystery maybe of his remains maybe even his dog tags?'</p> <p>The serial number on David Forrest's Beaufort bomber was A9-188, but the bomber they'd found was A9-186.</p> <p>"I had to tell Dad I can confirm it was a Beaufort bomber, I can confirm it was Australians, but I have to confirm it wasn't your brother's. That was tough."</p> <p>While Twiggy admitted that the chances of finding his uncle's remains are slim, he said he owed it to his father to keep looking. </p> <p>"For my kids and myself, the standard I hold myself to is doing your absolute best," he said. </p> <p>"It's not whether or not you achieve it, it's did you do your best?"</p> <p><em>Image credits: A Current Affair </em></p>

International Travel

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“Uncle Karlos says it's okay”: Karl’s message to Aussie school kids

<p dir="ltr">Karl Stefanovic has shared a questionable message for Aussie school kids, encouraging them to skip school if the Matildas win the semi-finals. </p> <p dir="ltr">The <em>Today</em> host is just one of millions of Australians counting down until the Matildas face off against England’s Lionesses in the FIFA Women’s World Cup semi-final.</p> <p dir="ltr">On Wednesday morning, Stefanovic made a cheeky suggestion to school kids around the country in the name of patriotism if the Tillys win. </p> <p dir="ltr">"I wanted to say something to the kids of Australia," he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Look, if it goes well tonight and we get through to the next round, I think all the kids of Australia should wag school and just say 'Uncle Karlos says it's okay.'"</p> <p dir="ltr">However, co-host Sarah Abo reminded Karl parents and teachers may not be too happy about countless kids not showing up for their lessons.</p> <p dir="ltr">"They will all get detention thanks to you," she warned.</p> <p dir="ltr">"No they won't, give the kids a day off - I was only joking," Karl quickly back pedalled.</p> <p dir="ltr">More than 75,000 fans have been lucky enough to score a ticket to the match in Sydney, but millions more are expected to watch the match both at home and at live venues around the country.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Today</em><span id="docs-internal-guid-fe90c86f-7fff-2f5b-0d65-eaeda659c637"></span></p>

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Radio royalty “Uncle Doug” Mulray passes away

<p>Radio legend Doug Mulray has passed away at age 71.</p> <p>One of Mulray's close friends, commentator Peter Switzer confirmed he died as a result of liver cancer. In December 2022, he was admitted to hospital, but at the time the cause was unknown before it was revealed it was for a “chronic illness”.</p> <p>Ben Fordham disclosed that Mulray “hadn’t been well for a while” and spent the night in intensive care on March 20, 2023.</p> <p>Born on December 1, 1951, earning himself the nickname “Uncle Doug” nationwide, he began his career at 2AD in Armidale before heading over south to stations Gosford and Melbourne.</p> <p>Mulray became an influential voice for Australian radio, rising to notoriety with <em>Mulray &amp; The Man</em> in the 70s on 3AW Melbourne. From there he made his way to ABC’s Double J and then Triple J, where he spent the majority of his career before calling it quits in 1999.</p> <p>The radio pioneer was the face of Channel Nine’s Australia’s <em>Naughtiest Home Videos</em>, which debuted in 1992. There was only one episode that was stripped off air after 34 minutes, something Fordham refers to as “infamous”.</p> <p>"During Episode 1, Kerry Packer was sitting at home watching the show, and he thought what he was seeing was atrocious, so 34 minutes into Episode 1, he called Channel 9 and said, 'Get this crap off air'," Fordham told listeners on 2GB’s Ben Fordham Live!</p> <p>Mulray was inducted into the Australian Commercial Radio Hall of Fame in 2019, but in recent years he was known to keep a low profile.</p> <p>Entertainment reporter Peter Ford referred to Mulray as an “absolute legend” of Australian radio and was a “great communicator” back when FM radio was in its early days.</p> <p>"He was adored, he was outrageous, he was witty," Ford said, noting his "clever" humour that "wasn't just shock value or outrage.”</p> <p>Fordham emphasised how, when he was asked how he managed to remain on-air for so long, Mulray expressed his love of radio and a “whole lot of adrenaline”.</p> <p>"He was one of a kind, he was outrageous, he was politically incorrect, he was Doug Mulray," Fordham said.</p> <p>Fordham went on to say that whenever his salary grew, he’d hire more writers and staff rather than raking it all in himself.</p> <p>"If there's a radio station in heaven, they better get the dump button ready, because Doug Mulray is coming," he said.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Instagram</em></p>

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“Never be forgotten”: Uncle of NRL star drowns while saving swimmers

<p>The man who died, Talitiga Taupau, was trying to save the lives of two others caught in a dangerous rip with him.</p> <p>The father-of-six entered the rip at Cronulla’s Shelly Beach on Saturday afternoon. One swimmer made it back to the beach, while Talitiga and one other were pulled unconscious from the water. </p> <p>Talitiga died at the scene, while the second unconscious man was revived and taken to St George Hospital in a critical condition after allegedly being underwater for three minutes. The swimmer who returned to shore was reported to be in a stable condition and receiving further treatment. </p> <p>Talitiga’s death brings the state’s summer drowning toll to 14 (with the count commencing on December 1). </p> <p>The 44-year-old has been identified as the uncle of Brisbane Broncos player Martin “Marty” Taupau. </p> <p>“It's really sad that this has happened but he will never be forgotten for his actions," Marty told 9News of his uncle’s passing. Marty was reportedly driving to Brisbane with his family for training with his team when he heard the news. </p> <p>“There’s just so much happening,” he added, “so much to process.” </p> <p>Talitiga and the second man were pulled from the water by nearby lifeguards. Joel Wiseman, director of lifesaving for Surf Life Saving NSW, stressed the strain on volunteer lifesavers across the state in the wake of the recent drownings, including the tragedy at Shelly Beach on the weekend. </p> <p>“We are experiencing one of our busiest summers ever with huge rescue numbers,” Wiseman stated, “and our volunteers have put in a massive effort to try to keep people safe along the coast.</p> <p>"Despite the growing drowning toll, volunteers and lifeguards should be very proud of what they've achieved so far this summer. There are a combination of factors making this summer so deadly, including people taking risks, alcohol consumption, and crowded beaches which can lead beachgoers to seek out unfamiliar and unpatrolled locations.</p> <p>"Rip currents remain the number one coastal hazard and the 14 coastal drowning deaths this summer have all occurred at unpatrolled locations."</p> <p>An investigation is underway into the latest drowning, with Sutherland Shire police set to prepare a report for the coroner. </p> <p>Talitiga Taupau is being remembered as a hero for his actions, with tributes flowing for his family.</p> <p>Marty Taupau posted one such tribute to his Instagram, sharing 9News’ segment on his uncle’s story with the caption “Manuia lau malaga uncle“ (Have a good trip uncle) and the hashtag “hero”. </p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; 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font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; 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overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cn_oTOwJwJ9/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by 🧿 M A R T Y K A P O W 🧿 (@martykapow)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“Prayers and condolences to you and your family brother,” wrote Australian basketball star Dejan Vasiljevic. </p> <p>Fellow rugby league player Brad Takairangi commented, “much love my bro.” </p> <p>“So sorry for your loss @martykapow,” shared one supporter, echoing the sentiments of many who had come to the post to share their condolences for Marty and Talitiga’s loved ones, “sending sympathy and love to you and all your family.”</p> <p>As Marty told 9News, “I know I’ve got the right people and support networks around … I’ll be okay.” </p> <p><em>Images: 9News</em></p> <p> </p>

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Kate Middleton's uncle slams Harry and Meghan

<p>Kate Middleton's uncle, businessman Gary Goldsmith, gave an exclusive interview with Australian TV show<span> </span><em>60 Minutes<span> </span></em>about his niece's family.</p> <p>Goldsmith said that a "whole nation" is "massively disappointed" with Prince Harry and Meghan's decision to air their dirty laundry on television.</p> <p>"You just don't do what they did and then go on Oprah and talk like that," he said.</p> <p>"I'm just very disappointed with them, it's just not the way the world works."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPI1GElgtms/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPI1GElgtms/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Oprah Daily (@oprahdaily)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Goldsmith had nothing but praise though for his favourite niece.</p> <p>"Her laughter fills every room that she's in," he told Steinfort.</p> <p>"She's almost like the girl-next-door with a wicked sense of humour."</p> <p>Royal commentator Kate Nicholls also appeared in the interview, saying that the COVID-19 lockdown made the couple more "real and relatable".</p> <p>"The public got to see more of the true Duchess than they'd ever been able to see before," Nicholls said.</p> <p>"We got access to them in a way that we absolutely haven't before, and I think a lot of that was down to William and Kate recognising that they couldn't be seen to be in their ivory tower, they needed to be accessible."</p>

Beauty & Style

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Newly found letters spark search for mystery uncle

<p>Rachel Powers, mum-of-five, decided to take the time to sort through old files during lockdown when she came across a collection of letters that had been locked away for decades.</p> <p>After reading them, she discovered that they were written for her grandmother and realised she had a long-lost relative.</p> <p>Powers learnt that her grandmother had a former lover named John, who had fathered a child with her before leaving the military service.</p> <p>The letters have been written through the late 1950s and Powers discovered that the baby had been put up for adoption before her grandmother married her grandfather.</p> <p>She posted to a Facebook group asking for help to find her long-lost uncle and described the romance between her grandmother and John.</p> <p>"Somehow John found out about the baby and wrote her letter after letter to beg for her forgiveness to ask how to help, how had he known things would be different and what he could do," Ms Powers wrote.</p> <p>Her grandmother had looked for John in 2000, writing messages to "Johns all over the country", but her search was in vain.</p> <p>She was unable to find him before she passed away in 2006.</p> <p>Powers is now determined to track down her uncle and has begged the two-million strong Facebook group to help her with her search.</p> <p>"I want to see what happens," one Facebook user said.</p> <p>"Folks unselfishly coming together to make a perfect stranger happy," commented another.</p> <p>People suggested that Powers takes a DNA test to see if she could track down John that way, whereas others said she should post in the Facebook group 'Search Squad' that is assisted to a not-for-profit that specialises in helping people track down lost relatives.</p> <p>Powers is yet to track down her lost uncle.</p>

Caring

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Consumers in shock: Iconic Aussie brand shunned by Woolworths

<p>Woolworths has removed the much-loved brand of Uncle Tobys from its shelves amid rumours of a price increase that the supermarket giant wasn’t willing to pay.</p> <p>In a <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.nestle.com.au/media/newsandfeatures/breakfast-cereal-price-increases" target="_blank">media release</a> from <em>Nestle</em>, who own Uncle Tobys, the price increase is due to the drought affecting their farmers in Victoria.</p> <p>pHowever, experts have warned that fresh food including fruit and vegetables could be next.</p> <p>The National Retail Association chief executive Dominique Lamb has suggested similar cost pressures and explained to <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://7plus.com.au/weekend-sunrise" target="_blank">Weekend Sunrise</a></em> that suppliers are under a huge amount of pressure as costs continue to rise.</p> <p>“We know a lot of businesses are finding it difficult with increases in utilities prices.</p> <p>“Also with the cost of labour ... all businesses are going through these things so I think we will see this continue from time to time.”</p> <p>Ms Lamb also explained her thoughts as to what will happen to the fresh food market.</p> <p>“I think it will happen ... but hopefully everyone can maintain their relationships, because as consumers we will all suffer.</p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7825665/uncle-tobys.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/617e0760d1e3484693479389e45a0ca4" /></p> <p>“It is the consumer who bears the difficulties around this where they can't get their product if there are big price hikes.”</p> <p>Nestle spokeswoman Margaret Stuart confirmed that the supplier had encountered issues with Woolworths. Stuart told <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6894909/Uncle-Tobys-beloved-oat-brands-disappear-Woolworths-shelves.html" target="_blank">The Daily Mail</a></em>:</p> <p>“We have a supply issue with Woolworths which we’re both working hard to resolve to make sure that our breakfast cereal products are available again there soon.”</p> <p>Stuart also mentioned that the supply issue hasn’t impacted Coles.</p> <p>“We can confirm that Uncle Tobys and Nestlé breakfast cereals are available at Coles.”</p> <p>Have you noticed this cereal disappearing from Woolworths? Let us know in the comments.</p>

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Jessica Falkholt’s uncle’s eulogy will break your heart

<p>Almost a month after the Boxing Day crash that killed her parents and sister, Jessica Falkholt has finally been laid to rest, five days after <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2018/01/home-and-away-star-jessica-falkholt-has-passed-away/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">passing away in hospital</span></strong></a>.</p> <p>The 29-year-old actress was farewelled at the same church as her family, where hundreds of mourners, including her former Home and Away castmates gathered to celebrate the life of the talented young woman described as a “gorgeous soul”.</p> <p>Choking back tears, Falkholt’s uncle Paul Ponticello gave a heart-wrenching eulogy in which he thanked those who tried to help the family and condemned the drug-addicted driver responsible for the horror crash.</p> <p>“An entire family has been taken by events totally beyond their control,” Ponticello said, according to the <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5295745/Jessica-Falkholt-farewelled-hundreds-packed-funeral.html" target="_blank"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Daily Mail</span></em></strong></a>. “What occurred does not fit neatly within the definition of accident.</p> <p>“A heartfelt thanks goes out to those who risked personal safety to drag both Jessica and Annabelle from the wreckage, which gave the girls, albeit slim, a chance of survival.</p> <p>“Jessica’s determination and strength of character shone through as she clinged to life for three weeks before succumbing to her injuries.</p> <p>“Beautiful Jess, you made us proud,” Ponticello concluded. “You were a rising star. Shine bright above us, you will always be remembered and in our hearts forever.”</p> <p>Falkholt’s cousin Cathy Randazzo also spoke at the service, calling the young star “a mature, well-mannered, kind and vibrant woman”.</p> <p>“She loved her family, she loved travelling, going on family picnics and she adored her late grandparents.</p> <p>“I seek comfort in knowing she is with her family now. Her and Annabelle were the centre of her mum and dad’s world.</p> <p>“Her mum was her biggest supporter, rest assured she is being smothered with love and hugs from Vivian, Lars and Annabelle right now.</p> <p>“She is no longer in pain and being the positive person she was, she would want us to be happy too.”</p> <p>Rest in peace, Jessica.</p>

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Duchess Kate's uncle arrested for assault

<p>The <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/beauty-style/2017/08/prince-william-and-kate-join-the-royal-family-on-holidays-in-balmoral/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>British Royal Family</strong></span></a> is in damage control with reports confirming Duchess Kate’s uncle Gary Goldsmith has been arrested and charged with assault.</p> <p>Police reportedly arrested Goldsmith following a suspected domestic dispute with his wife Julie-Anne Brown, at around 1:30am in the morning, UK time.</p> <p>Goldsmith tweeted the photo of the couple at a charity auction and seemingly in good spirits hours before the incident, but things would quickly turn sour.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Kate Middleton’s uncle Gary Goldsmith arrested on suspicion of ‘thumping wife in the… <a href="https://t.co/rkx9QpYUnT">https://t.co/rkx9QpYUnT</a> <a href="https://t.co/LSr0EtPYZ1">pic.twitter.com/LSr0EtPYZ1</a></p> — viralgaf (@viralgaf) <a href="https://twitter.com/viralgaf/status/918959999451140096?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">October 13, 2017</a></blockquote> <p>A taxi driver told local media that things were starting to get heated between the two as he was driving them back to their place from the event.</p> <p>“They wanted to go to their house. They were arguing, saying quite rude stuff. We got to the house, he paid the fare. She was trying to open the door [of the house] so he went over," Daniel Shepherd told The Times.</p> <p>“She started crying and said, ‘Call the police, call the police.’ I did. The police came. He got arrested. They wanted lots of details. I had to give reports."</p> <p>This wouldn’t be the first time Goldsmith has found himself on the wrong side of the law, with stories from 2009 linking him to drug use in Ibiza, Spain.</p> <p>Kensington Palace has not yet issued a statement.</p> <p>What are your thoughts?</p>

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Bride asks 92-year-old uncle to be her “something blue”

<p>A US bride has given a whole new meaning to the wedding tradition of having “something blue”.</p> <p>When Alison Ferrel married her husband, Matthew, on May 13, 2017 she knew she wanted to include her 92-year-old uncle, Bill Lee Eblen, in the wedding ceremony.</p> <p>Bill, a former sergeant in the United States Marine Corps during World War II, was escorted down the aisle in his Dress Blues – and we must say, he nearly stole the show from the bride.</p> <p><img width="500" height="750" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/37209/1_500x750.jpg" alt="1 (182)"/></p> <p>"Once I got engaged, I knew I wanted to include my Uncle Bill, or as social media now calls him, 'Uncle Blue,' in a special way," Alison told Babble. "Coming from a close-knit family where I was taught to have respect and admiration for those in the armed services, this felt like a natural choice, to have Uncle Bill there in his dress blues."</p> <p>Uncle Bill fought through a severe bout of pneumonia to attend the wedding. In fact, it was Alison’s request for him to be her "something blue" that made him pull through his illness.</p> <p><img width="500" height="750" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/37210/3_500x750.jpg" alt="3 (152)"/></p> <p>"What's your goal?" a nurse asked him in his hospital bed. "To be her 'something blue' on her wedding day," he would answer.</p> <p>Photos of the bride and Uncle Bill were shared on the Facebook page Love What Matters.</p> <p>"It was such an honour to have him serve as my 'something blue' on my wedding day [for] a memory that will last a lifetime," Alison wrote.</p> <p><em>Image credits: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/lovewhatreallymatters/photos/pcb.1528964690459257/1528964013792658/?type=3">Love What Matters Facebook</a></span></em></p>

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Uncle Of The Year goes to this man who dressed up as a princess to make his niece feel better

<p>When 23-year-old Jesse Nagy was looking after his 4-year-old niece, Izzy, they decided to go to their local cinema in Alabama to see the new Disney movie Cinderella.</p><p>Izzy really wanted to wear her princess costume but was afraid that she would be the only one dressed up.</p><p>So Jesse decided to dress up with her. He borrowed a prom dress from a friend and proudly wore the gown so his niece wouldn’t feel embarrassed.</p><p>“If it’s going to make her happy, I’ll do it. I don’t care,” he told ABC News.</p><p>If that doesn’t win him Uncle of the Year, we don’t know what will!</p><p><img width="600" height="1067" src="http://cdn29.elitedaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/10580202_10203619181696239_280806390485149323_n.jpg" alt="10580202_10203619181696239_280806390485149323_n" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-976373 zoom" style="display: block;"></p><p><img width="600" height="1067" src="http://cdn29.elitedaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/e5yforz-e1427120419499.jpg" alt="e5yforz-e1427120419499" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-976374 zoom" style="display: block;"></p><p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p><p><strong>Related links:&nbsp;</strong></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/03/man-rescued-from-under-bus/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Watch a group of people lift a bus off a trapped man</strong></em></span></a></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/03/babysitting-wards-off-alzheimers/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Babysitting grandkids can ward off Alzheimer’s</strong></em></span></a></p><p><a href="/news/news/2015/03/town-learns-sign-language/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>A whole town learned sign language to surprise their deaf neighbour</strong></em></span></a></p>

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